How to rehome a pet responsibly

Deciding to find a new home for your pet is hard, and people get there for all kinds of reasons: a move, a new baby, allergies, money, a change in health, or a pet who isn't settling. Whatever brought you here, finding the next home yourself is one of the kindest things you can do for your pet. They go straight from your home to a new one, without the stress of a shelter, and you get to choose who they live with.

This guide walks through the whole process. Take it at your own pace.

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Before you decide: could you keep your pet?

Many problems that lead to rehoming have a fix. It's worth a few calls before you decide.

Housing. If a landlord won't allow pets, ask whether they would with a pet deposit, proof of vaccinations or a reference from your last landlord. When you look for a new place, start early and search for pet-friendly rentals.
Behavior. Barking, chewing, house-training slips, pulling on the leash and squabbles with other pets often get better with a good trainer or behaviorist. Ask your vet first: some behavior changes have a medical cause.
A new baby. Most pets adjust well with some preparation. Introduce the new sounds and smells before the baby arrives, and keep your pet's routine as steady as you can.
Allergies. Talk to an allergist before deciding. A pet-free bedroom, an air purifier and regular grooming help many families.
Money. Many shelters and rescues run pet food banks or low-cost vet and spay/neuter clinics, and some vets offer payment plans. Ask a no-kill shelter near you what's available locally.
A short-term crisis. If you need help for weeks rather than for good (a hospital stay, a move, a hard patch), a friend, family member, boarding kennel or rescue foster program may be able to care for your pet until you're back on your feet.

If you need to rehome your pet soon

Start as early as you can. Finding the right home usually takes a few weeks, and a deadline makes it tempting to say yes to the first person who asks. If time is short, post your listing today, tell friends, family and coworkers, and call nearby no-kill shelters and rescues to ask whether they have space or a waiting list. Breed-specific rescues are worth a call too, even for mixes.

Get your pet ready

Visit the vet. A recent checkup reassures adopters. Make sure vaccinations are up to date, and spay or neuter your pet if you can: it widens the number of homes open to them.
Gather the paperwork. Vet and vaccination records, the microchip number and chip company, and any medication details.
Write down what you know. Food and treats, daily routine, favorite toys, fears, how they are with children, dogs and cats, and anything a new owner should know in the first week.
Groom them. A bath and brush before photos and meetings makes a big difference.

Write a listing that finds the right home

Adopters read listings closely. The more honest and specific yours is, the better the match.

Tell their story. Age, size, personality, what they love, what a typical day looks like, and why you're rehoming them. A few sentences in your own words go a long way.
Be honest about limits. If your pet pulls on the leash, chases cats, needs to be the only pet or doesn't like small children, say so. It saves everyone time, and it's the best way to make sure your pet doesn't come back to you or end up in a shelter.
Take good photos. Natural light, eyes in focus, an uncluttered background, and your pet relaxed rather than anxious. Include one full-body photo and one close-up of their face. Listings with photos get about three times the visits.

When you list your pet on The nØkill Network, your listing appears on your city and state pages and in local searches, and people who are interested message you through the site. Your email address is never shown on your pet's page.

Share your listing

Share the link to your pet's page with friends and family, on your social media and in local community groups, at work, and at your vet's office. The more people who see it, the better your chances of finding the right person.

Talk to the people who get in touch

A phone or video call before you meet saves time and tells you a lot. Keep it friendly and conversational: you're looking for reasons to say yes, not reasons to say no. Some questions worth asking:

Have you had pets before? What happened to them?
Who lives in your home, including children and other pets? Has everyone agreed to a new pet?
Do you own or rent? If you rent, does your lease allow pets?
How many hours a day would the pet be alone? Where would they sleep?
How would you handle house-training accidents or other bad habits?
Do you have a vet? Would you be happy for us to speak to them?
What would you do if it didn't work out?

Take notes, and trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, it's fine to say no and keep looking. You're choosing a home your pet will live in for years, and dogs and cats can live 15 years or more.

Meet safely

Meet somewhere public for the first time, like a park or a pet store, or bring a friend along. Never go to a stranger's home alone.
Dogs often meet best on a walk together. Cats usually settle better if the meeting is at the adopter's home, or at yours.
Ask everyone who will live with your pet to come to the meeting, including any children, and ask about introducing other pets.
Watch how the people treat your pet, and how your pet reacts to them.

Rehoming fees

Whether to ask for a fee is up to you. Some owners ask for a modest fee, or a donation to a local shelter, to cover the vet costs and to put off anyone who isn't serious. Others prefer to waive it for the right home. Either way, take your time choosing, and don't hand your pet over to someone just because they offered to pay.

The handover

Put it in writing. A simple adoption agreement, signed by both of you, sets out what you've agreed. Your account has a printable one for each of your pets, filled in with their details.
Send their things along. Records, food, bowls, toys and bedding make the move less strange for your pet. A bag of their usual food helps their stomach adjust.
Update the microchip. Transfer it to the new owner so the chip company has their details.
Agree to stay in touch. Ask the new owner to contact you first if it doesn't work out, so your pet comes back to you rather than going to a shelter. Many owners also like an update and a photo after a few weeks.
Close your listing. Mark your pet as adopted in your account. Adopters will see the good news, and you'll stop getting messages.

Look after yourself

It's normal to feel sad, guilty or relieved, often all at once. Taking the time to find a good home is a caring, responsible choice, and many owners say the update from the new family is what helped most.

List your pet for free: it takes a few minutes, and you can take the listing down at any time.